You may be thinking that there is no way you can get your ex and regain the charm in your love life. For hundreds of reasons people had a hard time patching a broken relationship. A few never give up and a few tries to fix it. Some people made it but some unfortunately didn't.
A broken relationship is as hard as you are fixing a broken mirror. They may be attached to each other but there is no way for you to see a clearer reflection again. One way or another, the relationship will be broken again and again. Repeatedly as a cycle. And that may hurt someone more than just letting go of it.
But there's another option to do. A better option. That prerogative is not to forget the person and believe he or she never exist which is somehow a stupid action.
Who can ever forget a person you once shared with? In good times or bad, a person once crosses to your path can never be forgotten.What about the time you invested and the moments you've shared? Were they just nothing? No, not for sure.
The alternative that I'm talking about is to have your ex lover--your friend. Isn't that better. With it, the time spent was not in vain but be a part of a good relationship instead.
How can that be possible? How can you be friend to the person who once cheated you and hurt you? Remember nothing is impossible. Here are few tips to do it.
First, is the acceptance that your relationship won't work when you stay as a lover. Second, is forgiveness to the person that once cause you mental pain. And third is to give way to the relationship to just being friends.
Would that be easy? No, not at all. For many would rather forget what happen and leave it. But one thing, I know a few who ended good and never regretted that they've chosen to become friends. which made them happier than what they used to have.
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